Angsty McThinkalot

As it turns out, if you’re feeling weird about the relationship that you’re in, and you feel uncomfortable talking about it because you’re still overanalyzing processing it, and don’t think you can logically discuss it …

1. Wait. You’ll be able to communicate better, and therefore less likely to say something horrific.
2. Talk about as soon as you can though, because you’re not the only on in the relationship, and they’re feeling the weird too.
3. And realize that sometimes all you have to do is identify it to make it go away.

Like monsters.

There’s a big-ass difference between getting bored with your boyfriend because you’ve been ignoring all the signs that point to Breakupland, and just not feeling particularly enthused. Enthusiasm returns.

Seriously, even when my relationship is at its absolute worst, it’s better than average. That’s hard to keep in perspective sometimes. Right now, though, I’m feeling pretty god damn smug.