{"id":141,"date":"2005-04-13T10:01:32","date_gmt":"2005-04-13T16:01:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/outsidecat.com\/wordvehicle\/archives\/141"},"modified":"2005-04-13T10:01:32","modified_gmt":"2005-04-13T16:01:32","slug":"angsty-mcthinkalot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/outsidecat.com\/wordvehicle\/archives\/141","title":{"rendered":"Angsty McThinkalot"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As it turns out,   if you&#8217;re feeling weird about the relationship that you&#8217;re in,   and you feel uncomfortable talking about it because you&#8217;re still <del datetime=\"2005-04-13T10:50:2605:00\">overanalyzing<\/del> processing it, and don&#8217;t think you can logically discuss it &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>1. Wait. You&#8217;ll be able to communicate better, and therefore less likely to say something horrific.<br \/>\n2. Talk about as soon as you can though, because you&#8217;re not the only on in the relationship, and they&#8217;re feeling the weird too.<br \/>\n3. And realize that sometimes all you have to do is identify it to make it go away.<\/p>\n<p>Like monsters.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a big-ass difference between getting bored with your boyfriend because you&#8217;ve been ignoring all the signs that point to Breakupland, and just not feeling particularly enthused. Enthusiasm returns.<\/p>\n<p>Seriously, even when my relationship is at its absolute worst, it&#8217;s better than average. That&#8217;s hard to keep in perspective sometimes. Right now, though, I&#8217;m feeling pretty god damn smug.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As it turns out, if you&#8217;re feeling weird about the relationship that you&#8217;re in, and you feel uncomfortable talking about it because you&#8217;re still overanalyzing processing it, and don&#8217;t think you can logically discuss it &#8230; 1. Wait. You&#8217;ll be able to communicate better, and therefore less likely to say something horrific. 2. Talk about [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-141","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-after-school-special"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/outsidecat.com\/wordvehicle\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/outsidecat.com\/wordvehicle\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/outsidecat.com\/wordvehicle\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/outsidecat.com\/wordvehicle\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/outsidecat.com\/wordvehicle\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=141"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/outsidecat.com\/wordvehicle\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/outsidecat.com\/wordvehicle\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=141"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/outsidecat.com\/wordvehicle\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=141"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/outsidecat.com\/wordvehicle\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=141"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}